Friday, July 31, 2009

Space: a mark of respect

Giving space in a relationship, marriage or otherwise, is vital for the healthy life of it. Unfortunately, not all people want to understand that space is important for the constant growth of a person, and hence, if space is compromised, the individual feels trapped in the relationship.

We would obviously want our loved ones to be happy and be happy ourselves. So, if we are encroaching on their personal time, dictating terms to them at every chance, we are not much bothered about their happiness. If we do not care about them, we do not respect them. And, with no respect in the relationship, love ceases to exist between partners.

Let us give space to our dear ones as well as firmly but gently ask for it ourselves when needed. Let us stay happy.


Anonymous said...

so true..We feel suffocated unless we get our necessary space..Very thoughtful way of u saying that its mutual ..


Ayesha Parveen said...

Hi Vyshu!

Thank you very much for your appreciative comment. Do visit again.

Best wishes :)

AJai said...

I totally agree with you. Giving a person space implies trusting him/her which is vital in any relationship. It was good of you to point it out.

Ayesha Parveen said...

Hi Ajai!

Thanks a lot for your encouraging comment. Best wishes :)

A New Beginning said...

I Completely agree with u Ayesha!Space is a very imp factor in a healthy relationship!
Thanks for the wonderful words!

Whirlwind said...

I wholeheartedly agree with you Ayesha!!

A lot of ppl dont give space and end up losing relationships as well as self respect. Space is an essential factor else any rapport becomes stifling!! Very well written!!

Ayesha Parveen said...

Hi Swetha!

Thank you very much for your appreciative comment. Have a nice day :)

Ayesha Parveen said...

Hi Sana!

Thanks a lot for your comment. Best wishes :)

anupama said...

dear ayesha,
beautiful lines,dear.i learned it late.i was always possessive and i have lost very connections.slowly i started i give spcae and take space.
wishing you a great day ahead.

Amritbir Kaur said...

A meaningful message is contained in this post. In any relationship giving space to the other person is very essential.

Duchess of Tea said...

I stumbled upon your blog and this post caught my attention, so true!!
Nice blog.

Duchess xx

Vivek Patwardhan said...

Both are important in a healthy relationship....coming closer, and giving space. When you really respect a person, you instinctively know when and how to alternate between the two.

The photograph was the most appropriate one.



Ayesha Parveen said...

Hi Anupama!

Thanks a lot for your appreciative comment.

Best wishes :)


Ayesha Parveen said...

Hi Amritbir!

Thank you so much for visiting my blog and for your comment. Do come again.

Best wishes :)


Ayesha Parveen said...

Hi Duchess XX!

Thank you very much for visiting my blog and for showing appreciation. Do visit again.

Best wishes :)


Ayesha Parveen said...

Hi Vivek!

Well-said! The balance is needed. Thanks a lot for the appreciation :)

Anubha said...

Hey Ayesha,

Truly said! Space is absolutely essential in every replationship and must be taken care of if we want the relationship to grow with time... Wish everyone could understand that....

Take care dear :)