Friday, February 27, 2009

Making your own way




When faced with difficulties we have options out of which we choose one. Our choice reflects our attitude to life. What is important primarily is not to make any choice in anger as the mind does not think logically when a person is angry.

The second most important thing is optimism. If we believe that problems can be solved, solutions do appear, usually. This might be partly because an optimistic person never gives up trying.

The third factor is believing in oneself. Self-confidence often makes the difference between success and failure. No matter what others say, if you believe in a cause sincerely or have a dream, hold it very close to your heart. The very act that you respect your ambition or dream, will help you in realizing it.

The use of ethical means is a must when dealing with obstacles to our success. If the means are dishonest, no lasting happiness can be the result. It is better to choose failure than choosing corruption because for an honest person true success comes in the long run.

Troubles come in every person’s life. How you deal with them determines how successful you are in making your own way.

17 comments:

Shravan said...

well written !
"It is better to choose failure than choosing corruption because for an honest person true success comes in the long run."

Ayesha Parveen said...

Thanks Shravan, for your encouragement. Have a nice day.

My wOrLd... said...

ayesha...
Well written...and a true fact...
Keep writing...
All the best yaar...
Rugma...

Whirlwind said...

Quite a thought provoking article Ayesha.

manivannan said...

Good thoughts here! Well written.

Cheers!

A New Beginning said...

Thanks Ayesha, that's serves as a nice lesson for life:) Loved the pic:)

Prerna231 Group said...

Another Gem from a Gem... Wonderful write-up Ayesha Ji... A very important message for our society... Superb... I am yet again taking the liberty of sharing this to my internet world...

Regards
Aseem

Ayesha Parveen said...

@ Rugma,
Thanks for the appreciation :)

@ Swetha,
Thanks for your support Swetha :)

@ Manivannan,
Thanks a lot for the encouragement:)

Ayesha Parveen said...

@ Sana,
Thanks a lot for appreciating both the write-up and the picture :)

@ Aseem,
Thank you very much Aseem-ji, for calling me a gem. I am honoured. Please go ahead and share the work; if it helps in motivating people, my work is done.

Ayesha Parveen said...

Dear All,

I am having some difficulty in accessing blogspot.com and am unable to post comments at most of your blogs. Please bear with me.

If you will kindly forward your email IDs to me, I am going to send my comments there and you can copy, paste at your blog.

My address is:

ayeshacgs@hotmail.com

Thanks and best wishes,
Ayesha

Navami.sreekumar said...

well said..

ajay.rao said...

Hi Ayesha,
Problems are very common factor in human life. Most of us use delay tactics in facing it. Accepting a problem in primary will solve half the difficulties in facing it. As you said attitude towards life is very important. It adds up to 100 % numarically. The key for a successful life is, Keep a head straight attitude.
Thanks for sharing a good thought.

Ayesha Parveen said...

Hi Ajay,

Thank you so much for continuing to encourage me :)

Hi Navami,

Thank you for visiting my blog and leaving a comment. Do come again.

Hi Niranjana,

Thank you very much for appreciating my blog. Your comment has been published in another article. Please visit again :)


Best wishes,

Ayesha

KParthasarathi said...

The diificulties in life are intended to challenge and not defeat a person.It is only through fire that dross is removed and the human spirit elevated to higher level.
Best wishes with hopes for more frequent posts from you,Ayesha

Ayesha Parveen said...

Thank you Parthasarathi for your encouraging comment. Have a nice day. Best wishes.

Swapna Pravin said...

Nicely presented & true facts as well. Keep rocking :)

Ayesha Parveen said...

Thanks, Swapna :)